Awkward silence

An awkward silence is an uncomfortable pause in a conversation or presentation.[1] The unpleasant nature of such silences is associated with feelings of anxiety as the participants feel pressure to speak but are unsure of what to say next.[2] In conversation, average pause length varies by language, culture and context. An awkward silence may occur if a pause has exceeded, for instance, a length generally accepted for demarcating a subject change or the end of a turn. It may be preceded by an ill-considered remark or an imbalance in which one of the participants makes minimal responses.[3] Alternatively, the tension may arise from an expectation that speech is expected in the setting, such as a classroom or presentation.[4]

When Europeans communicate with Japanese people, a period of meaningful silence is sometimes misinterpreted as an awkward silence.[5] Awkward silences may occur when Japanese people are confronted with a direct question as the loss of face when making an unwelcome admission tends to make them reluctant to say phrases like "I don't know".[6]

  1. ^ She's worried about awkward silence, Boston Globe, February 16, 1993
  2. ^ Eveline D. Schulman (1982), Intervention in human services, p. 271, ISBN 978-0-8016-4371-2
  3. ^ Margaret L. Mclaughlin; Michael J. Cody (17 Mar 2006), "Awkward Silences: Behavioural Antecedents and Consequences of the Conversational Lapse", Human Communication Research, 8 (4): 299–316, doi:10.1111/j.1468-2958.1982.tb00669.x, archived from the original on 6 January 2013
  4. ^ Mary M. Reda (2009), Between Speaking and Silence: A Study of Quiet Students, SUNY Press, p. 168, ISBN 9780791493618
  5. ^ Christalyn Brannen (2002), Going to Japan on Business: Protocol, Strategies, and Language for the Corporate Traveler, Stone Bridge Press, p. 73, ISBN 978-1-880656-73-0
  6. ^ Ikuko Nakane (2007), Silence in Intercultural Communication, John Benjamins Publishing Company, p. 164, ISBN 9789027254108