Better Not Tell Her

"Better Not Tell Her"
CD Single cover
Single by Carly Simon
from the album Have You Seen Me Lately
B-side"Happy Birthday"
Released1990
Recorded1990
GenrePop
Rock
Length5:13 (Album version)
4:49 (Single version)
LabelArista
Songwriter(s)Carly Simon
Producer(s)Frank Filipetti
Paul Samwell-Smith
Carly Simon singles chronology
"Let the River Run"
(1989)
"Better Not Tell Her"
(1990)
"Love of My Life"
(1992)

"Better Not Tell Her" is a song written and performed by American singer-songwriter Carly Simon, and produced by Frank Filipetti and Paul Samwell-Smith. The opening track from Simon's 15th studio album, Have You Seen Me Lately (1990), the song also served as the album's lead single.[1]

A salsa-infused track, the song features a Spanish guitar solo by Jay Berliner. Entertainment Weekly called it a "mildly bittersweet love song" that sounds "firm, tender, and genuine" with a "pointed melody" and "an airy outdoor aura."[2] The single was a huge Adult Contemporary hit, remaining on the Billboard Adult Contemporary chart for 21 weeks, peaking at No. 4, and becoming Simon's biggest hit of the entire decade.[3] The second single from the album, "Holding Me Tonight", was also successful on this chart, peaking at No. 36.[3] Simon released music videos for both singles, and they each received airplay on VH1.

The song is one of Simon's biggest Adult contemporary hits, and has been included on multiple compilations of her work, such as the three-disc box set Clouds in My Coffee (1995), the UK release The Very Best of Carly Simon: Nobody Does It Better (1998), the two-disc retrospective Anthology (2002), the single-disc Reflections: Carly Simon's Greatest Hits (2004), and Sony Music's Playlist: The Very Best of Carly Simon (2014).

  1. ^ Fitzharris, Dustin (16 December 2015). "Carly Simon: Still 'Living Like a Flower While the Boys Grow in the Trees.' The Singer Opens Up About Life, Love and Music". Huffington Post. Retrieved 20 February 2016.
  2. ^ Sandow, Greg. "Have You Seen Me Lately". Entertainment Weekly. Archived from the original on April 24, 2022. Retrieved August 21, 2014.
  3. ^ a b "Carly Simon - Chart history". Billboard. Archived from the original on 2015-06-30. Retrieved 2015-04-29.