Hand-kissing

French President Emmanuel Macron greets U.S. First Lady Melania Trump by kissing her hand (24 April 2018).

Hand-kissing is a greeting gesture that indicates courtesy, politeness, respect, admiration, affection or even devotion by one person toward another. A hand-kiss is considered a respectful way for a gentleman to greet a lady. Today, non-ritual hand-kissing is rare and takes place mostly within conservative class or diplomatic contexts. Today, the hand kiss has largely been replaced by a kiss on the cheek or a handshake.

A non-ritual hand-kiss can be initiated by the lady, who would hold out her right hand with the back of the hand facing upward; or by the gentleman extending his right hand with the palm facing upward to invite the lady to put her right hand lightly on it facing downward. The gentleman may bow towards the offered hand and (often symbolically) would touch her knuckles with his lips, while lightly holding the offered hand. However, the lips do not actually touch the hand in modern tradition, especially in a formal environment where any intimate or romantic undertones could be considered inappropriate.[1][2][3] The gesture is short, lasting less than a second.

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  2. ^ "The Hand Kiss - Meaning, History & The Proper Way". Lemetropolelille. 28 September 2021. Retrieved 19 November 2023.
  3. ^ "Hand Kissing: a Guide For The Perplexed". whitebard.tripod.com. Retrieved 19 November 2023.