The talk in many corners of Wikipedia this week has been Emma Paling’s article "Wikipedia's Hostility to Women" in The Atlantic. The article, which we cover in detail in this week's "In the media", discusses the major issues involving women and the encyclopedia, including systemic bias in Wikipedia's coverage, the gender gap among contributors, and this summer's Arbitration case, which ended in a site ban for Lightbreather. Most of these goings-on will be familiar to readers; ITM contains a number of links to previous Signpost coverage for those who are not.
A number of Wikipedians have dismissed this article due to several small errors of fact that have since been corrected, including mention of the article about Nellie Brown instead of Clara H. Hasse, and the misidentifying of one user as an administrator. Other editors noted that the Lightbreather case was primarily about her behavior on articles related to gun control, a topic not mentioned by The Atlantic, and have written that her behavior justified the ban. To them, these temporary inaccuracies make the rest of the coverage of Wikipedia suspect. To the outside world, these are minor details. Sorry, nobody cares which of us is an administrator here and which of us is not. Non-editors may even agree that Lightbreather's behavior was inappropriate and she should have been banned. What they will never understand—when they see directed at her the sentence "The easiest way to avoid being called a cunt is not to act like one", a sentence that remarkably remains un-redacted and un-oversighted to this day—is why she was banned and the person who said this to her was not.
On User talk:Jimbo Wales, MarkBernstein summed up the matter from this perspective:
“ | Of course, Paling’s argument remains devastating: calling a woman a cunt is permissible, but that woman’s feisty editing was intolerable, even after taking into account vicious and unremitting sexual harassment. Indeed, ArbCom initially urged future culprits faced with harassment to lower their profile—an invidious recommendation that was reluctantly amended after community outcry.
In the big picture, petty procedural details have no impact outside Wikipedia, while Wikipedia's continuing embrace of harassment and protection of harassers remains the key story for the world outside the project’s back rooms. |
” |
This is clear as day to everyone who is not on Wikipedia. In any sane institution or workplace, this behavior would be unacceptable, and Wikipedia seems to be one of the few places left that doesn't understand that. Here, the mansplaining brigade comes to tell women that the harassment directed at women is all just in their heads, or that men have it just as hard as women online. In the face of all the evidence and all the accounts of harassment offered, they persist, as if out of some deep-seated psychological need to minimize the harassment of women. Or perhaps they like it that way; perhaps they prefer a swaggering atmosphere of faux-intellectual machismo, and they think it's their due as macho content creators to drive their enemies before them and hear the lamentation of women editors.
Wikipedia cannot simultaneously claim to be at the vanguard of technological and informational change while clinging to a Mad Men-era attitude towards the treatment of women. The world is changing. Case in point is the recent controversy regarding Geoffrey Marcy. He spent an entire career allegedly engaging in sexual harassment and other victimizing behaviors while a whole host of others enabled and protected him because he was or was becoming a prominent scientific content creator. The world will no longer stand for this behavior. If a male scientist at the top of his field who was frequently mentioned as a Nobel Prize contender is out of a job, do you think the world is going to accept similar behavior from amateur online encyclopedia article writers?
The denizens of the 15-year-old Wikipedia may smugly dismiss the findings of the 158-year-old Atlantic, but the rest of the world isn't seeing it that way. Rhododendrites posted on Twitter that "It's goddamn embarrassing that problems faced by women on Wikipedia have persisted so long that it's now a mainstream media narrative." Even my own mother, whose interest in internet drama seldom ventures beyond Candy Crush, is posting articles on Facebook about how Wikipedia is struggling with issues involving women. We may have successfully rebutted the media narrative about Wikipedia's instability and unreliability with years of hard work and improvements to the encyclopedia, but all of that work may come undone if this persists as the new media narrative.
Here's a hard truth for you: If you don't clean up this mess, the adults are going to come and take your toys away from you. The money could dry up: donations could drop, grants could disappear, academic research involving Wikipedia could vanish. Already, scholars of video games and digital media are reporting difficulties finding funding and academic support in the wake of the internet hate mobs of Gamergate. The same thing could happen to Wikipedia.
You may think of Wikipedia as some kind of libertarian techno-utopia that is immune to outside forces, but Wikipedia exists only because the world allows it to exist. It is supported by funding and donations, by academic research, and by its prominence in Google search results. At WikiConference USA two weeks ago, Andrew Lih asked "Where will Wikipedia be in another 15 years?" and warned that we could easily go the way of any number of other failed web projects. Its failure to deal with misogynistic harassment and systemic bias issues could be a contributor to its collapse. Something dramatic could happen, like Richard Branson putting Jimmy Wales in charge of a new billion-dollar web encyclopedia. More likely, it will go out not with a bang but with a whimper, slowly and incrementally, perhaps as the funding shrinks or Google drops the search engine prominence of what it perceives to be a misogynistic cesspool. Historians will look back on this as the turning point, and as old men (as we are, after all, mostly men) we will wonder whatever happened to that fun project where we used to spend so much of our time.
Maybe you don't care. A lot of us came here from other web projects and might disperse into new projects if Wikipedia fails. But if you do care, you will only have to do one thing: get out of the way. Stop interrupting every conversation about these issues by attempting to minimize them with your mansplaining. Stop disrupting every attempt to enforce the few rules that we do have and harassing the people attempting to enforce them. Stop objecting to every attempt to build new policies and structures to grapple with these problems. If you are in a position of community trust, such as an administrator, functionary, or arbitrator, resign.
If you do this, we'll fix the problem for you and preserve your sandbox for as long as you want to play in it. You will find to your surprise that little will change for you on Wikipedia. You will have to do a lot less mansplaining and be a lot less belligerent, but you'll still be able to work on encyclopedia content otherwise unmolested. No matter how good you think your content creation and other contributions are, if you’re unable to cope emotionally with diversity, you put at risk the survival of your work beyond the short term.
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I see you are persisting in repeating the false "cunt" accusation, Gamaliel. You are completely despicable. - Sitush (talk) 16:07, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
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Oh, and your obsession with this gender gap thing, which seems to get a mention in most Signposts since you took over, is becoming boring. It is as if nothing else matters or happens, which may well indeed be the case in your warped world but certainly is not true more generally. - Sitush (talk) 16:08, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
This is a brave, intelligent, and insightful warning to Wikipedians, who should take its warning to heart -- especially to those who least want to hear its message. If Wikipedia does not end harassment, society will find ways to end Wikipedia. MarkBernstein (talk) 16:37, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
The story was an interesting read. It makes one wonder what Wikipedia's fate will be in the coming years. GoodDay (talk) 16:55, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Thank you for writing this. U are totally right. Any Wikipedian who doesn't see this... Well indeed, society will take care of it... —TheDJ (talk • contribs) 18:44, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
I've seen plenty of talk pages on WP that aptly illustrate the issues raised in this article. The mansplaining seems to center around accusations of "taking things personal" when, in fact, personal comments were made and of "you need to toughen-up if you want to be on the interwebs" and variations thereof. I've seen WP guidelines and policies stretched to their irrational limits used as whipping posts to drown-out and suppress women's contributions. But I also see much the same on talk pages of articles about racism and bigotry (go figure). I usually chalk it up to the overwhelming presence of young, white male users who revel in their privilege and don't realize how bigoted they actually are. Meclee (talk) 18:48, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
This story was fed to The Atlantic by somebody from the Gender Gap Task Force/Gender Gap-list krewe. They don't pick up these stories from thin air. Interesting that Mark Bernstein is weighing in with power quotes — we saw the same dynamic with regards to his website during the most heated phase of GamerGate. It's all just a fucking game to some people, slay your enemies and who cares if Wikipedia's name gets dragged in the mud. Well I'm sick of it. I call bullshit on the backpatting yackers of GGTF/GG-l. The gender gap itself is part of the problem. Those people are the other. Carrite (talk) 18:50, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Thank you for expressing an opinion that seems to be held by a wide section of the community, that often remains silent so as not to solicit never ending harrassment. Sadads (talk) 19:22, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Persuasion
A good summary and sensible exhortation. Writing like this is important, but what seems sorely needed is a persuasive essay more effectively addressing the motivations behind the objections held by those described here as being "in the way".
The complications arise from Wikipedia's dual identity as encyclopedia and community. (There are other ways of looking at its identity, yes, but bear with me). Our rules mostly address either one or the other: WP:V, WP:NPOV, WP:RS, etc. for the encyclopedia and WP:AGF, WP:CIVILITY, WP:BITE, etc. for the community. The two are intertwined, yes, but there are multiple perspectives as to the relationship between the two and the relative importance of each set of rules when it comes to the other domain (e.g. the importance of civility to the encyclopedia).
On one hand there are those who want to strengthen the community in order to produce a better encyclopedia. They believe that by sacrificing, in one form or another, active contributors for reasons such as civility, the editors who would leave or who would be deterred by that incivility will more than make up for the loss in content production. In other words, the community gains and the sacrifice to the encyclopedia is only temporary. On the other hand are those who are very skeptical of this proposed trade-off. They argue that if this one person is a FA wizard and has 50,000 very high quality edits to the mainspace, why would we want to lose that person based on unproven claims about attracting more participation -- and participation by people who, even if they do actually show up, are unlikely to collectively make as much of a contribution to the encyclopedia? Those who have this perspective still generally acknowledge the gender gap exists, think that harassment is bad, think that a civil community is good, and think Wikipedia would be better if more women edited. But they're unconvinced of the merit of proposed approaches and unimpressed by those that have already been implemented. It just costs too much and there's too much at stake to "get out of the way." I think most objections to addressing e.g. harassment aren't objections to addressing harassment per se, but objections to the implementation of community remedies that might lead to restrictions being placed on active contributors and/or look to come at the expense of the encyclopedia.
Unless we're willing to block everyone who thinks this way -- and I'm quite sure we're not -- one thing we could really use is more convincing argumentation about proposed measures to strengthen the community and the value of those actions to the encyclopedia. Promises of more contributors, more diverse contributors, and a happy, welcoming community for its own sake just aren't convincing enough. There are many people who have done this in a number of ways, I know, but it might help to collect into one place all the ways we can connect the activities we undertake to address the gender gap (or civility generally) and the front-facing encyclopedia. Are there ways we can measure the impact of community-based initiatives on the encyclopedia? (In the past, perhaps?) What are the kinds of studies we can pitch to social science researchers? It's a big project, of course. I think it can be done. I just think we need more variety in modes of engagement on the issue. — Rhododendrites talk \\ 19:25, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Remaining Atlantic Errors
The Atlantic have now made three corrections to their article but at least one howler remains. If we are covering this in the signpost we should at least note the difference between the Arbcom judgement "The functionaries team reviewed evidence submitted about off-wiki sexual harassment of Lightbreather, but was unable to reach a consensus over whether or not it was sufficient to connect a Wikipedia editor to the harassment. The Wikimedia Foundation was kept fully informed throughout. The functionaries and the Arbitration Committee also reviewed evidence of a separate, apparently unrelated, pattern of off-wiki harassment. As there was conclusive evidence of the identity of the perpetrator of the second series of events, User:Two kinds of pork was blocked." as Arbcom didn't sanction the harasser because to do so would have outed him. To my mind this is a significant difference. ϢereSpielChequers 19:30, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
@WereSpielChequers: re AUSC, whether it exists or not at this point is unclear - there was no consensus for anything (including the status quo ante) among either the committee or those who responded to our request for comments. It would however not be the right body to investigate this as checkuser evidence was only a very small part of the total evidence considered (and there was a huge amount we did consider). Everything was investigated by the whole functionaries team, and there was no consensus that there was sufficient evidence to connect the harassment with Wikipedian alleged to be responsible (personally I felt that evidence that the alleged harasser was not responsible was about as strong as the evidence they were). The WMF investigated independently of the functionaries and also reached the conclusion that there was insufficient evidence to act. It is not possible to make this evidence public without compromising the privacy of multiple individuals in violation of the WMF privacy policy (and common decency). Thryduulf (talk) 15:37, 26 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
@Jayen466: I feel an official statement from arbcom is better than individual replies, given the seriousness of your allegation. I have started the process of getting this but it will obviously take a bit of time. Thryduulf (talk) 15:37, 26 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Thryduulf, is the idea of an official ArbCom statement on this issue (i.e. the propriety of punishing a Wikipedia editor for making off-wiki inquiries into the identity of a Wikipedia editor engaged in off-wiki sexual harassment of her) going ahead? Andreas JN466 12:43, 29 October 2015 (UTC)On reflection, Wikipedia talk:Arbitration Committee seems a more appropriate place for further discussion of this, and I have posed the question there. Andreas JN466 13:01, 29 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]@WereSpielChequers: asks, "what do we have to compare with that?" Well, for starters, we have that, in spades. Wikipedia is part of the world. Cabals of editors, seeking an advantage on-wiki, coordinate their actions on chat boards and use those boards, reddit, and Twitter to threaten and bully editors into submission or to drive them away from contentious pages. Meanwhile, the harassers rely on ArbCom support them and to punish any effort, on-wiki or off, to stop bullying, to retaliate, or to obtain the information necessary for prosecution. Meanwhile, commenters here are trying to relitigate 19th century feminism as if it were a new thing. Yes: as reflected in the Atlantic article and the ostrich-like response it has evoked here, most people outside Wikipedia would consider this plain nuts. MarkBernstein (talk) 15:53, 26 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
catsfunctionaries than any other person can, and my push wasn't strong enough to convince the people who wanted a higher standard of evidence before acting. That all said, it is possible that in the time since that original thread, more evidence has been compiled than what the functionaries saw back then; if you or someone else feels they have a comprehensive case to present, it may not hurt to send it in (privately, I should stress) to the functionaries for re-evaluation. If it turns out that we did see all the evidence there is, seeing it all again might not change people's minds, but if what people have gathered now is more than we had then, it might equip the functionaries to re-evaluate the situation better armed. A fluffernutter is a sandwich! (talk) 20:04, 26 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]Break 1
Arbitration/functionaries gender sub-group proposal
This section was broken off from above. The issue is whether to create gender-balanced subgroups of functionaries or Arbs when gender is an issue. It was first proposed by Andreas. Sarah (talk) 02:13, 28 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
The community has shown that it can't solve the problem of sexism on Wikipedia, and community consensus is not needed for the ArbCom to set up a specialist sub-committee. Sarah (talk) 02:09, 28 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Thank you!
This is a brilliant editorial, Gamaliel, thank you for authoring it. It's ironic, but these words are likely to have more impact coming from a male than coming from a female editor/admin who would just be judged as shrill and complaining. But the only way for Wikipedia to become a less abrasive and more welcoming environment is for male and female editors working together to make the necessary changes. It will take time but, I think you're correct, the perception by mainstream media that Wikipedia is a misogynistic environment will impact donations and any professional relationships WMF has with scholarly or other non-profit organizations. Liz Read! Talk! 19:34, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
I doubt the findings
@Gamaliel: Probably this project will not fail because of gender issues. There's no alternative online encyclopedia. It doesn't matter what bullshit we do, the people have no choice and will continue to read & donate.
Imho Wikipedia could only fail because of too much content, which is out of date and out of scope.--Kopiersperre (talk) 20:27, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Time to address the real problem
The vast majority of the world is still stuck in the past, whether because of tradition, religion, or conservatism. This means that the world is misogynist and antifeminist as a whole. Anyone who has studied the problem knows this is true. Western governments pay lip service to small pockets of feminism here and there so as to differentiate themselves from their opponents, but the fact remains that the financial engines of the West do business with the rest of the world, and reinforce the existing framework of misogyny in their blind worship of moloch. So let's stop beating around the bush and blaming a single Wikipedia editor for a problem larger than all of us and start naming names and placing the blame where it belongs. That editors bring their preconceived notions about women with them to this site is to be expected. And if you want to change their beliefs, you will first have to change their perception of their culture that raised them to this point. That's not going to be easy nor is it realistic for Wikipedia to tackle as an educational project. It's time to own up to the idea that the world is anti-woman, anti-feminist, and misogynist to its roots. Until you do, you're just wasting bandwidth. Viriditas (talk) 21:06, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
I'll also go out on a limb & postulate that the above comment is a perfect example of the sneering, superior, casually aggressive rudeness that makes Wikipedia an unpleasant place for all editors, regardless of gender. Which, in turn, disproportionately affects the retention of women. But then, what would I know... maybe it's just indicative of the dominator culture. In either case, we should reject it. - Ryk72 'c.s.n.s.' 06:28, 27 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
If you feel that my understanding of the material above is lacking, please look upon it as an opportunity to better explain, rather than dismiss. The likelihood is that other readers will have formed the same opinions as I, based on some of the rhetoric, which is, frankly, off-putting. Here is your chance to clear that misunderstanding; to evangelise the changes that you would see made. - Ryk72 'c.s.n.s.' 07:17, 27 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Already destroyed
Safe Space (South Park) already destroyed the nonsense (great timing for this editorial). Maybe Butters will filter Reality on wiki. --DHeyward (talk) 21:12, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
The Atlantic is not "the world"? for sure it is controversial ...
"the world" in the title attracted me and i was a little disappointed that it is about something i never heard of, in a newspaper i never heard of. i admit somehow i admire and wonder how The Atlantic achieved i know it now and i am again part of the world with it. i found an article about The Atlantic's strategy called "Is the Atlantic making us stupid?" by pamela erens which helps to explain. to cite a couple of sentences "He (James Bennet) has turned The Atlantic from a money bleeder into a moneymaker, from a worthy but familiar cultural artifact into a brand chattered about by people who are not usually considered part of the chattering class. And what gets the most chatter of all are The Atlantic’s frequent, and frequently controversial, articles about gender issues." erens then gives quite a lot of examples of stories, from single women, breast feeding, oral sex, end of men, how to end your kid in therapy, up to "Daddy Issues, Why caring for my aging father has me wishing he would die". --ThurnerRupert (talk) 21:49, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
@ThurnerRupert: Thank you for that instructive link on The Atlantic. Though it's goal, then and now, has been to "start a conversation", it's certainly a different animal from the days of Emerson, Tarbell, and Twain. Funny, I'm one of those old-school feminists who actually believes that irresponsible accounts like that given us by Emma Paling, who by design or laziness promoted Eric Corbett to administrative status—clearly to convey a false impression that c-word abuse is directed and condoned from the top of the Wikipedia hierarchy on down—actually does a disservice not just to women, but to all of us working for civility, accuracy, and justice in this world. But God forbid anyone imply that her motives were (perhaps) impure, that her broad-based, Luddite attack on this community was little more than an attempt discourage women from engaging and participating, or that sexist bias (dare I write it!) may have informed her faulty, sensationalized reporting. But who am I to say? I'm just an old dog who knows a dog whistle when I hear it Vesuvius Dogg (talk) 16:36, 26 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Yes the Atlantic got it wrong on multiple levels there (yet more evidence of the shoddy journalism) but given what Paling wrote, the intended implication was clear: By late 2014, the WMF was no longer interested in making the site more friendly to women. This is what they "corrected" it to:
The new version is even worse. She was not dismissed from Wikipedia. She was dismissed from salaried employment with the WMF and the wording implies that she was dismissed from her work on the gender gap there, not from the new job they gave her. As for the original one-year contract, did the journalist make any effort to find out from the WMF why they decided not to renew it and instead gave her a new more permanent job as "Program Evaluation Community Coordinator"? Obviously not. Was the reason for her new job at the WMF because the WMF was no longer interested in "making the site more friendly to women"? Personally, I doubt that, although any other reason (e.g. they wanted to try a different approach to the problem) might not fit into the narrative. I suggest you take up what you consider the outstanding issues with the Atlantic. I happen to like the magazine myself, and have read it for years. It doesn't change the fact that on this occasion they published shoddy work from a freelance journalist who to my knowledge has never had a piece published in a major mainstream publication before and who made multiple errors (either from carelessness or deliberately) which bolstered a preconceived narrative. But hey, the Atlantic site is getting loads of hits, far more than if they had originally published a well-researched and nuanced (i.e. boring) article. Voceditenore (talk) 06:36, 27 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
What a blatantly sexist essay
"Mansplaining"? Have we completely forgot that derogatory terms aimed at a particular group of people, in this case males, is classic discrimination? I'm not sure when sexism, in this case some feature beholden to men for whatever reason, became the standard on Signpost... Signpost admins need to realize that if such discriminatory and bigoted views are OK to air with such prominence, the genie is out of the bottle, and unfortunately, as we all can probably guess, it's not going to be men that bear the brunt of it in the end. I really don't give a shit about excuses, this sexist crap needs to stop. Int21h (talk) 22:19, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Amazing Comments Section
Surprised I didn't expect this comments section to be this heated as it is now. If heated is the right word in this case. What an issue. GamerPro64 22:48, 25 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
What to say
Every time I start to feel like coming out of my isolation on Wikipedia, I see things like this. As an American, in real life I have to hear the vacuous cant of "privileged white male", which to me is a clear signal that my experiences somehow... are not diverse? are not worth hearing? lower my standing in some way? I've grown somewhat used to people using the word "diversity" to mean "you're part of a monolithic group and therefore can't possibly add anything" and, while it certainly isn't always used in that sense, it happens whether or not anyone who's not a white male wants to accept that. Every once in a while I'd like not to have to mention that I'm on the autism spectrum to get people to even consider that I just might have a perspective to offer or something useful for them. On Wikipedia, this manifests itself when I try to beat some sense into India topics and inevitably face relentless accusations of colonialism or being some sort of white supremacist gandoo chodha boy (look it up yourself if you really want to know...).
I bring all this up because I walk both worlds in a way and that, as far as I can see, no one who declares themselves on one side of the issue is listening very well to those they perceive to be on other side. A lot of editors feel as if the people trying to get more women to edit are trying to do so at the expense of both them and Wikipedia's content, and people trying to recruit women feel as if those disagreeing with them are actively attempting to push women away. In either case I, an existing editor who is a known quantity here on Wikipedia, end up as essentially a pariah. Since I'm more or less the same in real life it doesn't mean I'll leave, all I want is for everyone here to think about what they're sounding like to people outside of this dispute. Were I unfamiliar with Wikipedia I'd conclude that one group wants me gone because I'm a white man, ergo my writing inherently has less value and makes me part of a vast hive mind trying to force every other demographic out (and relating some of the harassment I've dealt with makes me a misogynist), and that another wants me gone because I haven't joined the fight in the name of content creation. Even though I know that's not what anybody wants, it's the way it comes off. Simply listening a bit better to the other side, responding to them knowing that you essentially have the same goals, and leaving the anger and invective out of it would do everyone in this fight a world of good. Instead of fighting with each other, how about fighting together to add to Wikipedia? The Blade of the Northern Lights (話して下さい) 05:58, 26 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
In response to @The Blade of the Northern Lights:'s original post, I'm another straight white male editor who primarily contributes content rather than getting involved in political spats, drama, or politicking, and I also feel more and more unwelcome here because none of my demographic backgrounds can contribute to the Foundation's PC "street cred". Nothing else really to add, I just hope to encourage other editors who feel alienated by the Foundation's increasingly identity-based valuation of its volunteers to open up. Abyssal (talk) 03:08, 27 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Criticism of Wikipedia
I tried to add mention of this story to the Criticism of Wikipedia article, but have faced unexpected opposition. Everyone is welcome to join the discussion here. Cla68 (talk) 10:11, 26 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Is this about treating women fairly, or somebody's political battle?
Those who read that conversation at Jimbo Wales should focus more on User:GorillaWarfare's comments, where she goes through a long list of little ways that she has been mistreated that had to do with her sex. These are things that clearly women shouldn't have to put up with to contribute here, though it may not be easy to stop them. Meanwhile, despite the incessant harping on Corbett's one comment - made after he was roundly criticized for abusing Jimbo Wales with the now-infamous epithet - he is not the face or standard-bearer of Wikipedia sexism as The Atlantic and The Signpost might have you believe. There seems to be far too much interest in winning political advantage here, rather than genuine reform. Wnt (talk) 23:49, 26 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Is the Woe is Womyn Narrative Cracking?
Is this comments section a sign of the end times: a return to normality; or is these merely a false down where we return to the 'Gender Project Task Force's' ritualistic and cultish gender purification project? 77.97.24.152 (talk) 05:43, 27 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
HBO's "Doll and Em" on 'the C word'
Emily Mortimer seems quite proud of this episode of Doll and Em, which includes "[a] long scene featuring extensive use of the word 'cunt'" and notes cultural differences that may be considered relevant here. A snippet from that scene:
[redacted for copyright reasons]
(Submitted without comment) ♀ petrarchan47คุก 22:47, 27 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Identity politics and fellow-travellers
Judging from the comments, it's clear that identity politics is a harmful and divisive path for this community. And that is bizarre, given that Wikipedians edit anonymously and no one knows what you look like or who you are unless you choose to disclose it. The start of identity politics is really the same in most communities: people come in to say that "we" have a problem with diversity/harassment and you have to do as they say to fix it. It's a mix of political organizing, the perks of being a spokesperson for the cause (such as being featured in the media or even paid positions) or even as straightforwardly as Gamaliel puts it, to get old community members "out of the way" and replace them with fellow-travellers. Of course, the feminist gender gap agenda goes in hand with other progressive poltiical goals (the whole Gamergate can be described as left-wing vs. right-wing issue as well). I'm surprised the RFA process is yet not as politicized as it could be, given how much power certain admin cliques yield in some contested topics. But to avoid biased and negative media coverage and strife amongst our own, should others simply stay silent on the identity politics? No. If the political organizers are given full air superiority, there will be larger repercussions on how our community processes work, how much influence the admin cliques have and how Wikimedia uses it's funds. --Pudeo' 03:20, 28 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
This article just reads like a sophisticated troll, but I suppose I'm mansplaining now. Meh, I don't care. Praemonitus (talk) 19:54, 30 October 2015 (UTC) 18[reply]
Folks: I'm sure it's tons of fun to rehash century-old political posturing, and that this costume-drama rehearsal of the run-up to the Civil Rights Movement (and, before that, the 19th century debates over Emancipation of Catholics and Jews) is, I'm sure, very exciting for you. But outsiders might not understand and think you actually mean what you're saying, and that could be embarrassing to the project. It's hard to see how this benefits the encyclopedia, either. Why don't you stage a different play in a more appropriate theater? .MarkBernstein (talk) 17:54, 28 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
What do you mean? Sure she can. You do it all the time, and you know you do. Why can't she? --BenMcLean (talk) 16:12, 2 November 2015 (UTC)[reply]
looking to hire a tinpot dictator
Maybe a Banner Warning of Bullying Would Help
Could there be a banner at the pages with tutorials that says something like " Welcome to Wikipedia. There are many wonderful people here. There are a few people who will anonymously be nasty, mean, and bullying but they are the minority. If you feel harassed go HERE for advice." We warn people on highways that there are dangerous curves ahead. We warn people at beaches that there are riptides. We warn people at zoos not to put hands in animal cages. New editors to Wikipedia can feel marginalized, belittled, attacked and sad. If we want more women it is time to realize that the bullying culture that exists by some at Wikipedia needs to be confronted in a way that allows women to recognize UP FRONT that they are not alone.Then these behaviors will be seen for what they would be seen in a world where people have names and faces--anti-social behavior that need not be tolerated.Kmccook (talk) 15:37, 30 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Thanks for this essay
Just had to say thanks for this. I'm a male editor, but easily recognise the problems identified here. They're not unique to Wikipedia and exist in many other parts of the Internet, but what's frustrating is much of the community's continued refusal to recognise them. I would hope this editorial would knock some sense into people's heads, but it probably won't. Far more likely is that the community will remain as it is, and its attitudes will continue to drive much-needed users away, or deter them from joining in the first place.
Personally, I've long since given up on the community and just make mostly minor edits to articles and talk pages these days. This was the first time I've stepped back into WP-space in months. But good luck to those of you still fighting the good fight.
Regarding the 'cunt' comment mentioned in the article, it may not have been an instance of direct misogynist abuse, but certainly comments like that contribute to an unfriendly environment for women (and arguably, everyone), and I remain flabbergasted that the user who made it wasn't sanctioned for it. As I recall, that's about when I gave up on the Wikipedia community: a forum where calling people cunts is OK is not one I want to take part in. I hope one day people here will recognise the damage that toxic users and rampant hostility cause to the site. Robofish (talk) 01:28, 31 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
Yes, thanks Gamaliel. What a shame we have to endure the primordial moaning of these buffoons above. Look at them all crawling briefly out blinking into society to dicksplain how being grossly offensive is just fine. Really. Sad. Anthonyhcole (talk · contribs · email) 09:04, 31 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]
I am going to provide this page to women who cannot understand why Wikipedia is like 10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a Woman. This page could become an article called Editing Wikipedia as a Women. Then those who work with women can reference it to show that there are many at Wikipedia that would like it to be a harassment free place to work. Thank you Gamaliel. Kmccook (talk) 10:42, 31 October 2015 (UTC)[reply]