Consequential strangers

Consequential strangers are personal connections other than family and close friends. Also known as "peripheral" or "weak" ties, they lie in the broad social territory between strangers and intimates. The term was coined by Karen L. Fingerman and further developed by Melinda Blau, who collaborated with the psychologist to explore and popularize the concept.[1][2]

Social life in the 21st century includes a wide array of personal connections, not just intimates—people associated with a particular part of one's life and daily activities, such as co-workers, neighbors, gym buddies, fellow volunteers and congregants, and providers of goods and services. Typically, peripheral ties far outnumber one's close relations. Decades of research have shown the importance of primary relationships in both psychological and physiological well being. Yet an analysis of the broader social landscape suggests that consequential strangers provide many of the same benefits as intimates as well as many distinct and complementary functions. They are not universally beneficial—undesirable consequential strangers who cannot be avoided can be found in the workplace, neighborhoods and organizations. But to thrive in a modern society, research suggests, it is vital to have a variety of connections.[3]

  1. ^ Fingerman, Karen L. (2004). "Consequential Strangers: Peripheral Ties Across the Lifespan". In Lang, F. R.; Fingerman, K. L. (eds.). Growing Together: Personal Relationships Across the Lifespan. New York: Cambridge University Press. ISBN 978-0-521-81310-5.
  2. ^ Blau, Melinda; Fingerman, Karen L. (2009). Consequential Strangers: The Power of People Who Don't Seem to Matter...But Really Do. New York: W. W. Norton. ISBN 978-0-393-06703-3.
  3. ^ Fingerman, Karen L. (2009). "Consequential Strangers and Peripheral Partners: The Importance of Unimportant Relationships". Journal of Family Theory and Review. 1 (2): 69–82. doi:10.1111/j.1756-2589.2009.00010.x.