| Emily Gilmore | |
|---|---|
| Gilmore Girls character | |
 Gilmore family matriarch Emily Gilmore, as portrayed by actress Kelly Bishop. | |
| First appearance | "Pilot" (Gilmore Girls) |
| Last appearance | "Fall" (Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life) |
| Created by | Amy Sherman-Palladino |
| Portrayed by | Kelly Bishop |
| In-universe information | |
| Full name | Emily Gilmore |
| Occupation | Housewife Socialite Whaling museum docent DAR chapter president |
| Family | Rory Gilmore (granddaughter) Lorelai "Trix" Gilmore (mother-in-law; deceased) Luke Danes (son-in-law) Christopher Hayden (ex-son-in-law) Hope (sister) |
| Spouse |
Richard Gilmore
(m. 1964; died 2014) |
| Children | Lorelai Gilmore (daughter) |
Emily Gilmore is a fictional character who appears in the American comedy drama television series Gilmore Girls (2000–2007) and its revival Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life (2016) as the matriarch of the eponymous family. Portrayed by Kelly Bishop, the character was created by series creator Amy Sherman-Palladino in order to add a tragic element to the show's light-hearted nature. Emily has had a complicated relationship with her daughter Lorelai ever since the character ran away at sixteen to raise her newborn daughter Rory on her own. They remain distant for several years until Lorelai asks her parents to help pay for Rory's schooling, to which Emily agrees on the condition that her daughter and granddaughter visit them for dinner every Friday evening.
One of the show's central storylines, Emily's relationship with Lorelai remains strained for the majority of the series, improving incrementally over time. Bishop, who prefers portraying acerbic over nice women, based her performance on her own grandmother. In Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life, Emily, recently widowed after the passing away of Richard, continues to mourn his death from which she struggles to move on. The death of her co-star and close friend Edward Herrmann, who portrayed Richard, was written into the revival; Bishop used her character's storyline about adjusting to life without her husband to cope with her own grief over Herrmann's passing, as well as drawing upon inspiration from the death of her own mother. The actress nearly did not reprise her role in the revival due to her own husband's health at the time.
Bishop's performances in both the original series and its sequel have been positively received by television critics. Critics and audiences were initially divided over the character's personality, debating her unlikeability and whether or not she is a bad mother. However, their opinions towards Emily have softened in retrospect, growing to sympathize with the character and defend her as one of the show's most complex characters who truly cares for the well-being of her family members. Despite being accused of classism and racism in regards to the way in which she treats her maids, Emily's arc in Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life, in which she takes on a more central role, has been widely acclaimed by critics and fans alike, becoming a fan favorite and experiencing renewed popularity. Critics and fans have since dubbed her the "third Gilmore girl", after Lorelai and Rory.