Family honor

This article is about family honor. For the drama, see The Family Honor.

An Indian woman is touching the feet of a man, a tradition to show respect that is embedded in culture. As painted by a west-Indian artist, circa 1530.

Family honor (or honour) is an abstract concept involving the perceived quality of worthiness and respectability that affects the social standing and the self-evaluation of a group of related people, both corporately and individually.[1][2] The family is viewed as the main source of honor, and the community highly values the relationship between honor and the family.[3] The conduct of family members reflects upon family honor and the way the family perceives itself and is perceived by others.[2] Family honor can be dependent upon many factors. Areas that are affected by family honor include multiple aspects of lifestyle such as social status, religion, clothing, eating, education, job or career, ownership such as real estate, and marriage.[4]

People who live in cultures of honor perceive family as the central institution in their society, and a person's social identity depends largely on their family.[5] Therefore, it is important for these individuals to fulfill expectations of family and society in order to be accepted by their family and experience feelings of belonging to this central institution that they are tied to through birth or marriage.[5] In some cultures, maintaining family honor is perceived as more important than either individual freedom or individual achievement.[6]

The ideology and practice of family honor varies from country to country. Individuals of certain cultures are often unaware or discerning in their understanding of differing cultural traditions. Many fail to grasp the concept of honor as the basis for traditions such as defending one's honor or their family's. Some cultures value family honor more than others.[7] Many times a family's honor may overpower the actions or beliefs of the individual. However, a theme that is common within many traditions is the respecting of elders.[3] Children of the family are to respect their elders who have earned what some call a "badge of 'honor'" representative of their age. Once an individual has lived many years, they have earned this badge of honor and should be shown respect, teaching their young the cultural traditions that have deemed them honorable.[3]

  1. ^ Bruce J. Malina (2001). The New Testament world: insights from cultural anthropology. Westminster John Knox Press. p. 42. ISBN 978-0-664-22295-6.
  2. ^ a b Cite error: The named reference spain was invoked but never defined (see the help page).
  3. ^ a b c Cite error: The named reference Family was invoked but never defined (see the help page).
  4. ^ Steve Derné (1995). Culture in action: family life, emotion, and male dominance in Banaras, India. SUNY Press. p. 30. ISBN 978-0-7914-2425-4. Retrieved 14 November 2011.
  5. ^ a b Bruce J. Malina (2001). The New Testament world: insights from cultural anthropology. Westminster John Knox Press. p. 29. ISBN 978-0-664-22295-6.
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  7. ^ Cite error: The named reference Culture was invoked but never defined (see the help page).